Friday, June 19, 2009

The Jewish comedy festival

I was never really a VIP or someone with 'connections', but last week we had a special treat. The second Jewish comedy festival took place in Montreal, and was organized by our best friends in Montreal, Rabbi yisroel and Sara Bernath of Chabad of NDG and Loyola Campus.

I wrote a 30-second tv spot about the comedy fest which was advertised on global-tv for about a month, and I also helped him put together a 5 minute video about Chabad of NDG which was displayed between performances and got a round fo applause at the end of it (yay). Actually I just wrote the outline since it was anyway interview-based.

In return, Yisroel gave us front seat tickets - basically the best seats in the house. Here are some photos from the amazing and hilarious event:


Tali yess and something Segal, who emceed. Tali was fantastic, but the woman didn't know her audience and tried too hard. It still came out ok.


Yisroel Campbell who came on after Joey Elias (sorry, no picture of Joey).

I should mention here how awesome Joey Elias was. He wrote his act specifically for the target audience. If you weren't from Montreal or you weren't Jewish, you'd miss out on half his jokes. He was awesome!

For example:

A bunch of yeshiva bochurim walked in late in the middle of the show. As they were getting into their seats (near the front of the audience), Joey quips:

"Oh look! The 32 bus from Victoria just arrived!"


Yisroel is the man! He gave over a Dvar Torah and dazzled the audience. He's only been in NDG for a little over a year!


I was the first victim of the Mark Salem show. He had me (and then 2 other people) think of a random number between 1 and 10. Naturally I thought of the number 4. The other two thought of 7. Then he pulls out a paper which he wrote on before speaking to us, and it said, "4-7-7".

When he asked me my name, Malky and Esty who were in the back, started whooping and cheering. Mark looked up and asks me, "why are they up there?"

Chayale retorted, "Hey, I'm his wife and I'm right here!"


Mark Salem writing something down and me smiling like a dolt.


That's me behind Mark Salem's shoulder down at the bottom near the stage.

It was a great night out, and we felt like VIPs. I think next year Yisroel will have to find a larger hall.

Should I make the blog public again?

What do you think? will it get me into hot water if I do?

Edit: the blog is open. Please comment on whether you think I should close it again.

Thursday, June 18, 2009

I need to scream!!!!


Ilana (formerly Lena) Berkun.


Things can be so unfair!! It eats me up inside!

In a good way.

It appears we were making lots of headway in Stavropol. Today I received this in my message inbox on odnoklassniki (the Russian facebook) from Ilana Berkun:


Шалом Цви !!!!!!!

Очень рада видеть вас !!!!

Как Хая ,Мирьям и Хайим ?Очень по вас скучаем ,помним и любим !!!!!!В нашей общине в пятницу несколько еврейских семей ,в том числе и наша семья ,мы будем встречать Шаббат! я буду печь Халлу и принесу в общину ,как меня учила Хая .Будем вести беседу на тему кашрута.


Free translation:

Shalom Zvi!!!!

I'm very glad to see you!!! (note: you can see if your friends are 'online' on this site)

How are Chaya, Miriam and Chaim? We very much miss you all, we remember you and love you all!!!! In our community (note: talking about our supporters) on Friday a couple of Jewish families including ours are going to start meeting to celebrate Shabbat! I will prepare Challah to bring to the center, in the way that Chaya taught me. We are going to make sure everything is completely kosher.



OYY! It's SO DIFFICULT! If only we were allowed to return, I'd willingly give up everything we have here in America (including -gasp- roller hockey) to go back, even with all the hardships we'd be facing.

These Jews need to be able to move forward and further. They need someone to guide them. Who will take us over? What can we do?

It physically hurts.

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

MADA


Above photo: from a news report you can find here: http://www.feor.ru/news/index.php?newsid=7733 about a class and preparation for Shabbos done by members of our community. Apparently according to the report I received they asked Hashem to let the 'gezeira' to be overturned so that we can return.

I like the think this exists only in the Jewish community, though it probably is something done on a smaller scale for their population percentages by other religions.

I'm talking about Gemachs, or in our case, a furniture Gemach.

We arrived in montreal pretty much impoverished. All our stuff was far away in Russia. As a matter of fact, we had come with virtually empty suitcases, assuming that the judge was saying the truth when she announced that we were allowed to return.

Empty suitcases that could be filled with Kosher food when we returned.

I even left my juggling equipment at home on the excuse that we'll have more space for food and clothes for the poor. Instead, I had to borrow someone elses stuff to entertain my sister-in-law and her husband at their wedding.

Luckily we had my parents help, and while I searched for a job, MADA gave us some food packages, which really helped.

Recently we moved into a nice new apartment. We had no furniture and someone advised Chayale to give MADA a call. This she did, and the Israeli Chabadniks out there reserved the following for us:

- A dining room table
- A queen size mattress and spring board
- A washing machine
- A dryer

Unfortunately they had no fridge. I went with my father to pick them up yesterday.

When I got to MADA, aside from just giving us what they had put aside, and all were in amazing condition, they also took us to the back where they had BRAND NEW beautiful furniture that the company donated because they were somewhat chipped.

So we basically took a bedroom set, an office desk, and some other furniture, and all for free! Amazing! I kept trying to tell them to stop adding stuff to our pile, but they said, "you were a shliach! You NEED all this!"

It took a lot of hard work to get it all in the apartment, but it now feels like a home. They even added a mattress for our guest room!

If it took 6 months for our stuff to get to Russia, how long will it take to get all our furniture back home? particularly after what I heard about the Russian border patrol being extremely careful about what they 'let out' of the country!

Well, we are waiting for Rabbi Lazar to pay for Chayale's flight out to Stavropol, and she needs to go as soon as she can since our landlord in Stavropol wants to put all our stuff into storage.

What a mess.

Monday, June 15, 2009

An email from Viktoria - more bad news




Hi!

We’ve just come back to Stavropol after a 3-day holiday (Independence Day of Russia), a rare chance for my kids to see their dad. This is the update:

So far I didn’t manage to find a deliverer from Stavropol to Canada . And no one will come to estimate the weight – everything connected with packing is the responsibility of the owner. Another point is the customs – only the owner with Stavropol registration can do it in Moscow , at Sheremetyevo. Or we should find a forwarding agent, do the customs clearance here, and then he would go to Moscow and push the container through Sheremetyevo. I’ve phoned 7 companies – no luck. You know yourself that Stavropol is far from civilization in this respect. I’m afraid here I’m of no help to you, sorry. Maybe Kostya will find the way, please ask him.

Yanna called today, she is ready to take the fridge and the oven, as well as the washing machine (some for money, some as replacement for damages). She is offering her garage (in the basement) for storage. The point is she has found a family of new tenants, and they would like to move in early July.



Good luck, good health and all the best to you both and the kids,

Victoria

Sunday, June 14, 2009

This is a frum Jew?



How can something like this be ok??

Friday, June 12, 2009

Video: Chaim Shimshon climbs over me

Taken in our old apartment. And finally, FINALLY we signed for an expensive but very nice apartment. We'll be living on top of Shternie and Zalmy Samama. More pictures tomorrow iy"h (after roller hockey).

Perhaps I should elaborate on the offer

Below, Viktoria and Chayale working in our apartment in Stavropol.


From all the comments of my last 'news post' telling me to take it (said three times by my east bloc friends too), I think that without going into too many details I'll explain what it is and why I think it isn't for me.

The offer:

A teaching (Yiddishkeit) shlichus for a prestigious shliach (who has a record of throwing out several shluchim under him). I'd also be expected to bring more families (through the children) to the Chabad House.

What I think:

I've tried teaching, and aside from the fact that I'm not really good at it (I'm more of a guy who 'hung out with my class'), I also hate preparing classes, since you spend an hour working on something that you (and the children) will have forgotten most of by as soon as you've finished teaching the class.

Also, I'm reluctant to work for someone with a record of chucking people who 'threatened him by being successful' or 'didn't do a good job' or 'didn't fit in'.

There are several other reasons which I cannot write, since they have to do with the location, which I don't particularly like for certain reasons.

Perhaps more offers will come forward, but for now I'm writing in most of my spare time. Actually, I'm looking for a Litvishe guy my age with a good sense of humor to assist me in my writing and brainstorming. Lots of money potentially involved, so if any readers knows anyone, please email me.

Retro pictures - arrival from Russia - a trip to the childrens museum







Thursday, June 11, 2009

Smart woman

We've been here two months and I've been aching to post pictures. But our plug attaching our camera to a computer is in Russia!

Chayale just discovered that we can plug our memory card into my parents basement computer, and she uploaded EVERYTHING! So I'll post a few here.


Miriam plays in the grass.


Chayale and Miriam on the slide in the park.


Miriam posing in classy gear.



More to come!

Tuesday, June 09, 2009

Curveball

I can't go into details, but I just got my first offer for a very good shlichus somewhere else. The Rabbi actually called me!

I probably won't take it, but it serves as an ego boost.

Today we have another dilemma. Chava Malloy (who is basically family and stays at my parents house) is returning frmo California and we have to leave her room and find somewhere else to stay (the basement?).

We may have found an apartment, though there's another couple 'in line' for it before us.

Friday, June 05, 2009

Nisyonos

Caution: emotional post ahead.

Why? Why does Hashem keep doing this to us? Why do we wind up in all these dramatic situations?

If I were an observer watching the events of my life, I would have laughed my brains out already. Murphy's law is the norm when it comes to our life. Just when things seems like they can't get any worse, they do.

We moved into a basement a month ago, since nothing else was available. You see, in Montreal, all leases end on July 1st, which is when everyone moves into their new apartments. I don't understand the system, but it makes it difficult for people coming into town before that time.

We knew that we had to leave by the end of the month, since the owners had sold the entire house, including the basement, to someone else who didn't want tenants. The owner, while a decent guy who helped us, did it for the money and now that our contract is up wants us out.

Chayale spent the entire month, and particularly the last week, franticly searching for apartments. Nothing was available in our price range with enough rooms, except for one basement on Barclay, which is the equivalent of living in Afghanistan except without the warm desert air.

Finally Chayale found an apartment. Expensive but perfect. We called our Mashpia and he told us to go for it. This was a last minute sorta thing. So we called the landlord and took money out of the bank, but he had already prmised it to someone else.

So tonight I will be up late packing and shipping the stuff to my parents house where we will be staying until we find somewhere better.

Why us? can't we lead a normal life? it's so frustrating!

Tuesday, June 02, 2009

Think good and it will be good



There is another chance. Rabbi Lazar has a meeting set up with the FSB director (and before you ask... I have no idea when it will be). So my prayers are getting more intense once again.

We spent Shavuos in Morristown with Chayale's family and had a really nice time. On the way home we stopped off in upstate New York to have a barbeque dinner with the Silbersteins, our comrades in exile from their shlichus in Vladviostok. The Silbersteins actually are the reason we moved to Russia. We called them while contemplating whether or not to move to Russia, and they convinced us to go.

At dinner, Yisroel farbrenged with me. Coincidentally, Yossi Marazov, Rabbi and fellow American Shliach in Ulyanovsk, Russia called, and we chatted with him for a little while too.

Over some beer, Yisroel told me something interesting. I may not have all the details correctly but the gyst of it is: a couple of weeks ago he learnt a Sicha, choosing one of the Rebbe's talks randomly (Likkutei Sichos Chelek Lamed Vov, Parshas Shmois, di ershtin Sicha, ois hey if I remember correctly).

He was shocked at how relevant the Rebbe's words were, particularly when he didn't choose the Sicha. We sat down in front of a computer, pulled the page from otzer770.com and learnt what the Rebbe says.

The Rebbe explained that the Chassidic saying 'tracht gut vet zein gut' (think good and it will be good) is a literal thing. And it doesn't mean that the result is already there and the 'right thing to do' is to think good, rather it's a cause and effect. In other words, if you think good, then it will be good. You have the power to change the reality, even though the work takes place from a spiritual point of view, and that is the essence of 'bitachon' and 'emunah' (trust in G-d).

The Rebbe continues and writes that even though you might think that according to the natural order of things, it is IMPOSSIBLE for there to be a change for the better, nonetheless the spiritual positive energy you create by thinking good makes G-d reply by thinking good about you and changing the physical for the better.

The Rebbe went on to stress that even if the person doesn't DESERVE to be helped, still just by 'trachting gut' it will be good.

Incidentally, I read over the Sicha, and the entire Sicha makes its point without the necessity of that Ois (those words). Perhaps we were meant to be reading it.

So my new resolution is to think good. I KNOW we will be allowed to return to Stavropol and this will all be behind us.

You hear me, Hashem?

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

An unknown kiddush hashem



As I wrote before, I have been working doing data entry for a stamp seller.

Today I was putting in some information and something bothered me about a certain stamp (pictured above) which hails from Sierra Leone, a small African country. As I read the biblical passages on the side, it hit me.

They spelled G-d the way I just spelled it! (Gee dash dee). Only orthodox Jews spell Hashem's name that way (because we don't what power it has, and don't want to wind up throwing G-d into the garbage. If it's spelled differently, it's like a sorta loophole and you can do what you want with it).

So what is it doing on a stamp from SIERRA LEONE?

The answer is that a Lubavicther in Crown Heights (and old friend of my Dad from Montreal) prints stamps for many countries around the world. I guess he couldn't handle writing G-ds name down, even on a stamp. What a kiddush hashem!

By the way, the stamp pictured can be found and bought. Google 'stamp Sierra Leone natures wisdom'.

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Hey! I was mentioned!

In http://yamlive.blogspot.com/2009/05/interview-with-yammer-boruch-tauber-aka.html that link.

Makes me all warm and fuzzy inside.

When Hashem closes one door...


Arriving in America, and discovering that we were in limbo had us in Morristown for a month, trying to fundraise, and then find a job. It didn't work out, so we came to Montreal, where we had a disappointing first week before finally finding an apartment.

Then we davened hard. I needed a temporary job, and tried everything. I even have been working for my mother, cleaning out the backyard. Hashem answered in a very weird way.

I made an appointment with Coho (a job-helping agency from and for Outremont Chassidim), and met with a woman there, who told me that they only had one job available, data entry for 10 dollars an hour. She also helped me write a resume, but then she emailed it to the wrong email address, and deleted it off her computer and email.

Desperate, I called and met with a Mr. Davidovici, a sweet little Litvishe man who sells stamps. I took the job, and spent the first week working for him.

I'm in my second week now and it's been a blessing. In most of my past jobs, I have worked with or for people who make me lose my faith in humanity. Finally here is a decent elderly guy who is so laid back and to be honest 'cute', and a mentsch to boost, that even though the work is boring, I'm actually somewhat enjoying it.

At the end of the first week he walked over to me and said, "usually my worker doesn't know computers and isn't quick to catch on, but I can see you know what you're doing. I'm paying you 14 an hour."

For anyone who has ever made fun of Litvaks (or Misnagdim), I wish they would have seen that. In general I actually find most Litvaks to be more honest than any other denomination.

Anyway, I've also been receiving call after call and offer after offer to write. Screenplays in particular. And not just screenplays of their choosing, it's mostly people (and well-known frum filmmakers too) telling me, "Zvi, you've got a name. Write whatever you want and we'll produce it and you'll make money."

Lots of doors have opened, and I will be walking through them. Not all of them, just ones that I see the people are serious and willing to partially pay me beforehand. But I will write nonetheless. I already have ideas brewing.

I also want to go to school to study screenwriting. Perhaps I should take a writing course too over the summer. If I'm gonna be doing this, I should do it right.

Monday, May 25, 2009

A sad email



We sent the news to Stavropol. We want to write a nice goodbye letter - only positive, nothing political whatsoever. Like saying how it affected us, and we know that what happened was something special, and all the times we had, all the projects and work and classes and shabboses we did went somewhere, and telling people to keep doing torah and mitzvos, and continue their Jewish heritage. Finish off with my contact information, and the idea of doing a class online. I am accepting advice for what to put in to the letter, and I must give Chaim Danzinger a huuuuge thank you for his input.
We received our first response, from the Davidov family. I welled up with tears reading the simple Russian they wrote. Here it is, translated:


Shalom Zvi and Chayale!!!!!! Today I was at Natasha's for school, and read your letter. Our family is extremely hurt. We are simply horrified that you won't return any more!!!! But we hope that we can remain friends through Skype.


Chayale, you know that we have grown fond of you and consider both of you family. You are our Rabbi and Rabbanit. We are ready to help you in any way if anything is necessary. You can rely on us, for we were your friends not because of money or work, simply as a religious Jewish family.


If any help with transportation of things is necessary, you only need to say the words and we will be there to help...


The Davidovs

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

A punch in the stomach

It's over.

Yesterday I received an email from Rabbi Lazar telling us to move on. Prime Minister Medvedev told the chief Rabbi that he had spoken to the head of the FSB and there was nothing more he can do. Other Rabbis need not fear, according to Medvedev, but we may not return.

For many of you readers, this means the end of reading the blog, as it will for now be alot more boring, based on our personal lives. I may even reopen the blog.

There are some final things to look forward to, such as Chayale's trip back (iy"h) and the goodbyes she will make, the journey of our stuff to return to Montreal, perhaps a final emotional letter to my community pleading with them to find a decent leader and stand up for themselves, and I'll iy"h repost some of the more inspiring stories of things that happened to us while we were on shlichus to Stavropol, Russia, a place that I will very much miss.

To all of you, thanks for all your support through our shlichus, and the time we were stuck in limbo.

Now it's time to figure out what to do with our lives (once again). Should I go to school, or back on shlichus?

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Hockey cures stress

I've known it for a while... I played 3 games this week and with each one my mouth felt better. Now it is perfectly back to normal, except that I'm sore all over from all the roller-hockey.

We've started playing every friday at 3. This week some college hotshots came by and tried to kick us off the court, saying that our players are 'too young' and they'll cream us (my nephew Menachem Mendel Myhill, 15 years old, plays along with some friends). Finally they agreed to make 3 teams, 2 would be 'their' temas, and one would be us (8 players). We'd play 4 on 4. Anyway, we creamed them and it made my week. They barely even got shots on goal. We shocked ourselves and shocked everyone watching - as some yeshiva kids beat these super-cool college guys.

Oh, I finally got a job - sorta. I'm doing data entry for a stamp collector and dealer in Montreal. Pays 10 bucks an hour. And Dovid Russ helped me find a good job, which is sporadic. It's Hashgacha work, and pays well (250 dollars a day!). So far I haven't received a call.

I'm also writing.

Of course, if anyone hears of anything, please let me know. I'm still looking for a temp job for now.

And the reason for the lack of posting is over - Miriam will be going to preschool so we finally have time for ourselves :)

No news yet from Stavropol :(

Monday, May 11, 2009

Miriam's view

So yesterday I couldn't fimd my normsl Yarmulka, and for the first time time in about 2 years put on one of my crazy ones, the gold one with giraffes on the side.

Miriam looked at me and said, "Tatty's wearing a crown!"

Friday, May 08, 2009

It's official: I'm stressed out



The right side of my jaw started bothering me two days ago, and I assumed it was a toothache. It kept me up two nights ago, it kept me up last night.

I went to the dentist, and after doing work on my teeth and finding several cavities etc. I asked him why I was (and still am) in so much pain.

"Stress." He said.

Basically, somehow I have knots in my jaw, and now I have to do these facial exercizes invented by Jim Carrey, and apply a hot pad onto my jaw every 20 minutes. I also should rest and take lots of Advil.

Apparently this is something he sees alot of, and he said I'll probably have this problem throughout my life whenever I get stressed out.

This is the first time in my life that I've been diagnosed with stress, and it sucks. My life IS quite stressful. I wish I knew if we were returning to Russia soon.

I am an impatient man.

Tuesday, May 05, 2009

Hard work pays off


Today was a good day.

After helping my father clean up the backyard, cut down a tree and start building a shed, I dropped by our Montreal apartment for a few moments.

As I was leaving, Miriam called out: "I love you, Tatty."

That's the first time I received such spontaneous words from my daughter, and it completely melted my heart. I left with a push in my step.

This evening, I put Miriam to bed. As I was singing her a Niggun (lying next to her), she lifted her head off the pillow, pulled her pacifier from her mouth, and to my surprise planted a kiss on my cheek (first time, too). Then she lay back on her pillow and whispered, "I love you, Tatty."

I could eat her for breakfast, lunch and supper.

And even without any ketchup.

Sunday, May 03, 2009

A day at the park



The family




Chaim Shimshon


Chayale and Audra




Miriam with Audra's kids (Ryan, Mason and Jake)



Photos by Audra.

Online class for exiled Shliach


In the comments of a previous post, my brother Benny suggested that I try to organize online Torah classes with my community. Apparently that is what the Shliach of Cuba does or something tothat effect.

Anyway, before Shabbos I wrote to Anya Davidova, a very active member of the community and leader of most of the young people, and I asked if she would be interested in helping to organize an online Torah class.

Well, tonight I rceived her response, and it was a positive one.

So now the question is: what should I teach?

Friday, May 01, 2009

Last post was deleted...

Due to a misunderstanding I had. Everything remains the same...

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Editted post - some parts deleted


Rabbi Lazar, the most amazing head Shliach.

I've been thinking alot recently about what it would mean after we receive the news.


Suppose the news is: return. All is good.


Then we'd have to organize new visas, work on getting the paperwork together for my permanent residency, and the return to Stavropol would mean that:

  • The community would be pumped. They would see a bright future, and be very excited about it. We'd be welcomed with open arms

  • Yefim, as we have seen, will stop at nothing, and who knows what he'd do upon our return. It's actually a scary thought. His girlfriend (and one of the causes for all this) works for the newspapers...

  • We might be swamped by the local news, who reported everything, and made us look bad (except for one newspaper which actually was somewhat neutral). We'd have to prepare for that too

  • The community would be more united, particularly after uniting to try and bring us back. That part would certainly be more beneficial

  • As per a Hachlata we took on, we would immediately focus all our energies into starting a fund for the building of a Shul in Stavropol

  • We might be closely watched by the FSB and other authorities who will try to make our lives miserable


Suppose the news is: it's over. Move on with your life.



Then the following consequences happen:


  • Someone must fly out to Stavropol and get our stuff packed and shipped to Montreal

  • We also must say our sad goodbyes to our friends and Mekuravim

  • Who will take care of the community? At least now they are more united, and hopefully they will get rid of the corruption taking place at the top, and be able to move forward

  • We need to decide what we will do with our lives (and I doubt we are going back to Shlichus, in all honesty)

  • Should we go to the newspapers and television about getting kicked out of Russia or not? that's another tough decision, which will be up to Rabbi Lazar

  • We'd be pretty devastated

  • Finally, we'd have to figure out what to do with the Sefer Torah, donated by Eli Ginsburg. Does it return to him, do we give it to the Sachnut, or to a different Jewish community in Russia? What happens?


What do you guys think? I prefer being practical than pretending that everything will 100% be ok. And things are not looking too great at the moment.

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

What's up with Hershcoviches getting in the news?


Benny is now making the rounds.
The above photo is Benny doing his work in Cabos.

Friday, April 24, 2009

Why did I feel a surge of pride when I saw this?



http://www.vosizneias.com/30586/2009/04/23/israel-feiglin-if-i-were-pm-id-rebuild-the-temple/ is a good read. I'd vote for this guy if I could.

This just in

This is an old picture, from Yekatrinoslav camp. The boy in the foreground is Rafi, a camper of mine currently in Yeshiva in New York.



Here's an email I just received from my secretary:

Hi!
Igor told me some more things about yesterday's event. You already know that they didn't let Natasha, Anya Davydiva and Kostya in, Yanna and Yefim were pushing the door so hard, they nearly broke Natasha's leg.. I think, Arkadyevich enjoied this circus.
The main decision was about a rabbi and Judaism in Stavropol. Everyone (including betrayer Fishman) was against any Judaism in "Shalom", and they changed the Charters (Ustav), they took out the clause saying that a rabbi is a leader of the religous community. Then the prepared people were elected into a board, and they set the date (28th of May) for another meeting, when Yefim is going to tell them what he had done, and they will approve his activity enthusiastically. He does ANYTHING he /she wants.
Arkadyevich said FEOR is going to write a letter to governor Gayevsky about Shnyukov and his support of such "religious" organisations, which in reality are the worst extremists.
Sorry, it seems that Stavropol was not the best choice of yours....
Take care and best wishes to the family,
Victoria



I wrote back that of course it was our best choice, and we hope to return. After all, someone has to make sure the corruption happening by the 'leaders' of the community must be stopped, and there are thousands of Jews who need us.


What do you think?

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Interview for yamlive - an Ottawa Yeshiva memorial


Memories - that's me in Ottawa.

Part 1

Pesach News

In English


It's funny. I sent in a photo to use, and they only put it on the main page, but a different one (at the moment) is used in the article. See fjc.ru

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

You call that an election?


Family picture taken many months ago in Stavropol by visitors from "Lechaim" magazine.



The report is in, and the result is: it has been pushed off.

I received 2 updates from Pesach, which I don't think I've posted yet - the facts that at the Seder we sponsored (well, some of your donations sponsored) 50 elderly Stavropol Jews who each received a package of food (necessity items such as eggs). Also, the children sang 4 Pesach songs. We really owe the 2 bochurim, Akiva and Shimon, a tremendous thank you since they did an amazing job. 137 people amazing.

Two days ago Igor Arkadyevich spent the day meeting with officials in Stavropol, and powerful Jews of the community. I don't know what he said, but he told me he was working on trying to find a solution for Stavropol's Jews. He also said that the officials seem to be on Yefim's side. He would later mention that he heard from somewhere that I must be out of the city for 5 years...

Yesterday he met with Natasha and Igr Lerner, and then went to a meeting which was held in a hall so everyone can fit. The meeting was called for 6:00, and in Igor Arkadyeviches words: "Over 80 people attended."

It started off organized from what I hear. Yisroel Yitzchak Farber (the guy with the Bracha from the Friediker Rebbe) got up first to speak.

He told them how his contribution to the community is going every Shabbos at 2:00 to eat and talk with his fellow Jews in the center. I used to go, and when I stopped coming, he was upset at me. He then heard about the arguments, and took Yefim's side, since Yefim was telling them that I had said I didn't want to come anymore.

However, after a couple of Shabbosim, knowing my character (I don't think I'm a mean person), he called me to meet. He came together with Mikhail Fridman and heard my side of the story. We agreed to meet with Yefim in my apartment, which happened.

At the apartment, all Yefim spoke about was money, while I tried to steer the conversation to peace. He said he left not sure what to think. But then when he saw Yefim the next day doing everything the opposite of what he had promised, and returned to me and saw me trying to do everything I had said I'd do, he had realized why people had years ago stopped walking into the Center.

"We need a new president, and we need our Rabbi back." He finished.

Next was Mikhail Grunis, who worked in the Center. He actually took my (tiny) office as his working space after Yefim threw me out. Later Yefim snubbed him and was nasty toward him, after he had fixed up the entire place. Yefim eventually threw him out. He testified out loud that he had seen people come in, and give Yefim over 10,000 rubles several times. Yefim didn't report this to anyone.

Finally, Refoel Khaimov spoke. He told everyone how he hadn't known there was a Center, and how he had met me. I had brought him to the center, and made him a part of the community. I taught him all he knew, and he told of the work he has seen me doing, and about my demeanor which he knows from driving me around alot.

After that, it went haywire. Everyone spoke up, all basically saying that Stavropol needs a new president and how they want their Rabbi back.

Igor Arkadyevich told them he'd work on it, and they might have to open a new "community" (i.e. religious organization).

He also told them that he thinks my chances of returning are slim. He thinks I must wait 5 years (I emailed this to Rabbi Lazar, and hopefully will receive his thoughts soon).

Today was the voting in of a new board and a new president. Last night we wrote a letter, and needing a direct answer, put it in the Igros (English Igros #5 (or 4 or 6, I forget), page 69.

The Rebbe writes to a Shliach going to Morocco that in a time of crisis, a king empties his treasury. He then says that 'we should hear good news and there should be a victory.'

This morning I went to Mikva, got the Minyan in Yeshiva to say Tehillim, and then returned home and waited to hear the results of the vote.

Finally I called, and here is what happened.

Over 50 papers had been prepared and properly notarized of people requesting to be considered members of the community. It was refused outright, which means that only Yefim's buddies could vote.

Police (and according to Igor Arkadyevich, several FSB men) guarded the door, and refused entry to anyone who wasn't 'allowed in.'

40 people were there, and Igr Lerner told me that 10 of them admitted publicly to being Keraim (Karaites, not considered Jewish). What was supposed to be civil turned into a shouting match, as Yana (Yefim's girlfriend) screamed at 70-year-old Svetlana Kozlova (Earlier we were told that she had had a heart attack, but thank G-d we were wrong). Svetlana is the woman who when she heard about the killing of Yeshiva students in Israel, called me sobbing.

They voted in a new board, but people protested because only 40 people were voting, while the rest of the Jews of Stavropol weren't even allowed in (by police!)

I don't have the details, but it appears that things got out of hand. Yefim announced that they were leaving the Federation and joining KEROOR (the other Jewish organization in Moscow).

After much discussion it was decided that another vote will take place on May 22nd. I'm still unclear on who will be allowed to vote. As far as I see it, only people whom Yefim decides will be able to have a say in who can lead the community.

Oh, and apparently his lawyer was there, along with Shnyukov, the guy in charge of religious affairs.

The charters were finally made public,. in which the Center, as 'Shalom group', has nothing whatsoever to do with religion.

Anyway, tomorrow Igor Arkadyevich returns to Moscow and reports to Sasha Boroda and Rabbi Lazar. I wonder what they have to say. I think our best option is to start a 'new community.'

Particularly now that we know that Stavropol doesn't have a Jewish religious organization.

Please say Tehillim

At 09:00 EST.

The vote for new president of the community is taking place then.

More details on what happened, etc. later.

Monday, April 20, 2009

Pesach in Stavropol


Hillel Davidov just sent me this picture. It was taken just before Pesach started.

He also told me that on Sunday before Pesach, they made a little seder in Hebrew School. 23 children and 10 parents attended, and it was led by Anya Davidov (who lit candles) and Reuven Avshalumov (who made Kiddush).

The names of the Bochurim who conducted the Seder were Akiva and Shimon. 137 people attended, which they didn't expect, and truthfully had no space for.


Igor Arkadyevich arrived from Moscow and met with businessmen today. Tomorrow he is meeting with the community.

Sunday, April 19, 2009

No camera attachments

Which means no picture updates, unless other people take pictures of us.

We are also looking for temporary jobs and a temporary furnished apartment in Montreal (something we can cancel with a months notice).

Any ideas?

Meeting Eduard

That's Eduard with Maurice Richard!

Zvi here.

I've been in contact for a while with someone named Eduard in Montreal who I met on odnoklassniki.ru when he visited my page, and I asked him if he was Jewish.

No, he answered, his father is Jewish and he wants to convert. He recently arrived in Montreal, can I help him find a Rabbi?

I hooked him up with Rabbi Sirota, of the Jewish Russian Community. 

Anyway, I've been going for Shabbos and Yom Tov to Rabbi Sirota's Shul, and yesterday Eduard was there! He came over all excited. He only speaks Russian and French, but is converting orthodox in about a month!

At the Kiddush, they asked me to speak (I am seen by the Russians there as somewhat of a hero. They had made me speak on Pesach as well, and my status was elevated further this week when an article about me hit the Montreal Russian Jewish newspaper).

I told them (in Russian) a beautiful story I had heard from Avi Richler.

The story (in short): A chossid told the Baal Shem Tov that he wanted to meet Eliahu HaNavi. The Besh"t told him to visit a poor widow with children in a small village for Rosh Hashana.

So the Chossid traveled there, bought tons of food for the family to eat (he was their guest after all, and wanted the home to be fit for Eliahu HaNavi), and spent the entire Rosh HaShana in her home, praying and waiting for Eliahu.

After Rosh HaShana, he traveled back to the Besh"t, and complained that he hadn't seen the prophet at all over Yom Tov.

"Go back for Yom Kippur." He was told.

Returning to the shack with more food a few hours before Yom Kippur, he overheard a conversation between the mother and one of her children.

"Mommy, I'm hungry and there's no food in the house. What will we do?"

The mother answered: "just like Hashem sent Eliahu HaNavi on Rosh HaShana, so too he will send him again on Yom Kippur."

It's a powerful story. I told them that we all can be Eliahu HaNavi's, who we know will welcome Moshiach. How can we do that? by helping tip the scale to the good - doing one more Mitzvah, and more importantly, helping others, and making sure they do Mitzvahs.

Then I told them a story I don't think I ever wrote on this blog.

Before we arrived in Stavropol, we tried calling the community center to have them organize apartments for us to look at when we arrived, so we wouldn't have to spend all our money staying in a hotel for a week.

Unfortunately we never got through, and our emails were never answered, so we were left on our own. (we were left on our own even after we arrived...)

On the plane from Moscow to Stavropol, I saw an ad in the Russian in-flight magazine advertising 'Century 21', a company that sells and rents homes and apartments. I took down their address.

When we arrived, I visited the address, which turned out to be 3 blocks down from our hotel. There I met Alexander Dengin, an English speaking local, who eventually (after over a week) helped us find an apartment.

A month in, we were still settling. We didn't speak Russian, and had no secretary yet. We had barely met anyone in the community, and one evening I got a call from Alexander Dengin, who told me to come to Century 21 now. He's sending the company car.

"Why?"

"The owner of Century 21 in the entire Russia is here and he wants to meet you."

I waited for the car, and was driven over. There I met Nuri Katz, a Moscow businessman who had heard about a Rabbi from Montreal in Stavropol, and wanted to meet since he was also originally from Montreal. He had about 10 minutes to spare.

We ended up chatting for 2 hours. 

At the end I asked him if the following morning I can stop in his hotel room to put on Tefillin. He refused, but after heeing and hawing with him a bit, he finally decided that if I, or someone I know, rents an apartment (or buys a house etc.) from Century 21, I should let him know, and he will put on Tefillin. He left me his number.

That never happened again, but as I told the Russians in Montreal, and now I tell all you blog-readers, if anyone rents or buys an apartment through Century-21, let me know. 

It's an easy way to get a fellow Jew to do another Mitzvah.

Who knows? maybe that Mitzvah will be the one to tip the scale.



P.S. apparently people from the department of religion in Stavropol were at the Seder, and saw for themselves the 137 attendees, and spoke to people about the situation. Finally some truth going around.

Not in a good way either. It's a shame Yefim's girlfriend works for this paper. They make me out to be a monster, and also somehow got ahold of an email I privately sent to someone in the community. I gotta be more careful what I write.

This paper: http://www.vechorka.ru/gazeta/?b=view&articleID=13142 is less harsh and more sensible, saying simply that foreign citizens should comply with local law.

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Scam or not?


I must fill this out


So this is the first email I received:


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I checked the senders possible location, and it was somewhere in Kansas, but possibly.

Weird scam. So I wrote back to him from a different email address, telling him I want to meet and hear about his father...

He wrote back that he's in London, but wants it wired before Pesach, so please give him my banking info by Friday.

Then I received an email from a Mr. Greg Harrison of Halifax Bank in London. He was the banking consultant, and wanted my details to confirm the wire transfer.

My father-in-law checked up on scamomatic.com or something like that, and it really looks like a scam. The email address is a hotmail one, and the phone number is one that can be connected to anywhere in the world. Also, I haven't found a wealthy David Vance or a Greg Harrison who works for Halifax bank in London.

I have found the address in London for where Mr. Harrison, and will call them after Yomtov, iy"h.

What do you think?

Monday, April 13, 2009

Pesach in Stavropol


Another picture of the awesome couple.


The report came in from Stavropol.

But before I get to that, I want to write about my phone call on Erev Pesach, after I got a message from my father-in-law telling me that a "Konstantin Solomonov" was trying to reach me.

It was Kostya!

I looked at the time... half hour to Pesach in Stavropol, so I gave him a call. He wasin the kitchen, finishing up some cooking, and we chatted for only a short time, but I also managed to speak to one of the Bochurim running the Seder (an Israeli named Shimon), who told me that apparently Yefim contacted him.

He didn't go into details, but he said "what an apikorus!" He then gave me some inspirational words of Chizuk, telling me how we have done a good job with the community, etc.

Then I spoke to Natasha, who told me that over 50 people were already there (in Kostya's restaurant), and they were expecting many more. I told her to send my warmest wishes to the community.

So today I received an email: 137 people had attended!

This says something about Yefim's place. Last year, we managed 50 people for the first Seder and 30 for the second. Many didn't show up because we did it in the Center. That only came after alot of prodding and calling, etc. not just by myself, but by Yefim and Natasha as well.

This year 137!!! And that probably excludes the 10 or so people supporting Yefim. Also, people from the governors office, and visitors from other nationalities were there to show support. What a Kiddush Hashem, and great job done by the Bochurim! I wish I could thank them personally.

Sadly, Yefim meanwhile hired a lawyer, and according to the email he is making a 'reelection' and of course only people he calls can vote. Guess who he's calling?

That's right. 6 people are going to vote in the new president for the community of Stavropol.

Pathetic.

Maybe we should just start a new Jewish community...

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Web story and interview on lubavitch.com

Click Here

Erev Yomtov I got a call from Lubavitch.com telling me that they wanted to interview me. It was cleared with Rabbi Lazar, and here is the result.

What do you think?



P.S. Benny wrote a song dedicated to us. The lyrics are:


A light slowly brightens, smiles are formed.
A hope so long lost has come.
Spiritual guidance, cold hearts are warmed.
Connecting the souls to be one.

Leaving your comforts, to help those in need
The challenge seems great on its own.
The angels they tremble, the verdict decreed
Such suffering who would have known.

Chorus:
So be strong
Oh dear brother, it won’t be long
Yes the flame will burn and you will return.
Continue to inspire and give.

Don’t be swayed.
Don’t let the darkness make you afraid
your power inside – A Shliach with pride,
It’s through you that the Rebbe he lives.

Waiting in darkness, the future looks grim.
Believe or just start from anew.
Give up while we can, all the chances are slim.
How can we quit on a single Jew?

The forces of evil make hope but a dream.
Their lies and their scandals they pledge for our end.
With Ahavas Yisroel, we stand up and scream
Ad Mosai, Moshiach please send!!





Monday, April 06, 2009

There are bad people in the world


Chayale's Shabbos candle lighting sign, which was mysteriously removed from the Center last time I was there.


I just got off the phone with Moscow.

Things have become more complicated. A couple of years back, in Naberezhni Chelni (a city in Russia), the Jewish community got fed up with their corrupt president, and organized a reelection.

The president lost of course, but several days after the victory the old president sued the community for lots of money, plus a demand that he be reinstated as president.

His reasoning:

The Ustav (charters) of the community, in which protocol is decided how the community will run and of course, who is considered a member of the community, who can vote etc.

Moscow has a basic Ustav they send to every community, and if a community changes the Ustav, they send Moscow a copy of the new one. This evil man changed the Ustav, but didn't tell Moscow.

He won the courtcase, since according to the charters of the community, most of the people who voted weren't allowed to. (And now there was a different person sitting in HIS office, of course).


The Federation is worried that Yefim did the same thing. They don't have a copy of the new Ustav (and they know a new one was made). So we have no idea who is allowed to vote. This complicates matters, and means that more time will go by, since we are now asking the authorities for a copy of the Stavropol Ustav, which is totally legal (anyone is allowed to see it), but will take time.

As you can guess, Yefim isn't showing the new Ustav to ANYONE.

More great Shluchim ideas


The Sefer Torah event with cafe Kovcheg, Kostya's place, in the background.


I'm loving these ideas for Birkas Hachama (blessing of the sun).

This is from corwnheights.info and vosizneias.com

POUGHKEEPSIE, NY [CHI] — Rabbi Hanoch Hecht and members of the Jewish community of Rhinebeck, New York will ascend in hot air balloons to Rabbi Takes Congregation in Hot Air Ballons.

Birkas HaChama (the blessing of the sun) is a ceremony in which Jews recite a blessing on the Sun as it returns to the place it was appointed during Creation. It occurs every 28 years and always on a Wednesday.

The congregation will set out to perform the cermony from James Beard Park in Rhinbeck at 6:00 AM, Wednesday April 8th.



Also, on the shluchim exchange, Rabbi Shemtov from Uruguay said he's having a plane fly by during the blessing, with a sign trailing it which says "thank you G-d for creating the universe."

Cute, huh?

P.S. We just found out that our apartment was opened so our secretary can remove some kosher meat and grape juice from it...

The Candidate


Kostya with Shertil Shalumov, chief Rabbi of Pyatigorsk at our Torah event

Yesterday morning I called Stavropol for a scheduled meeting with some of the leaders of the community.

We spoke about Pesach (Chayale even gave over a Dvar Torah), and discussed the situation.

The only clear thing that came from the meeting is that they finally have a candidate for president of the community.

Kostya Solomonov is a successful businessman who owns a cafe/hotel at the edge of Stavropol. He tried to move to Moscow a couple of months ago, but has returned.

He is on my Mivtzoim route, and I used to put Tefillin on him every Friday (now his brother, who works with him, is on the route). Before he left to Moscow, we were starting to learn Chumash together.

The Siyum Sefer Torah was done in his cafe, and he allowed and encouraged us to make the restaurant kosher.

I think it's a good choice.

Saturday, April 04, 2009

Zalmen Mendelsohn - That guy thinks big



I have a new role model Shliach...

What a creative and thinking mind. Every Jew in Idaho probably saw this on TV and had a surge of pride. Any non-Jews watchig probably got a nice feeling toward Jews.

This is fantastic, and original. We need more shluchim like Zalmen.

Homeless


Stavropol's theatre.


So after the discussion with our landlord, she apparently changed her mind, and is not giving thekeys to our apartment to anyone, except of ocurse, to me.

We tried reaching her all day, but she won't pick up.

This is a real disaster. Where will the 2 bochurim stay? where will the second seder be? what's going on with all our stuff?

We're thinking of writing a letter authorizing our secretary to use our apartment blah blah blah...

If that doesn't work, we might have to sue. After ll, can someone put a lock on an apartment without telling the tenant?

Friday, April 03, 2009

I thought the news was over...

http://www.ynetnews.com/articles/0,7340,L-3696151,00.html

Lots of misinformation out there... This is the first time I've seen them get the stuff wrong from our side, most notably the fact that it hasn't been a year since Friedman and Elyashuv were kicked out. They were thrown out over 2 years ago. Of course, I also wasn't chucked a week ago, and lastly, they butchered my last name.

Shame on them. :)

We want our apartment back


Agent Emes at Kinus Hashluchim 5769 from Leibel on Vimeo.

So I went on Agent Emes' blog today (agentemes.blogspot.com and not as exciting as I thought it would be). Anyway, I watched a video, and surprise! I made it in! I'm like an Agent Emes super-spy, judging from the way I act at about 3:10 into this video. A good video, nonetheless (in other words, despite my acting).

:)


Last night we (Chayale and I) played a game of Kugelach. I got up to Chelek 4, onesies before bridgies. Chayale was almost one level behind me when we stopped, Chelek 3 bridgies. Oh, the good times.

Today was another stressful day. I woke up to find what I thought would be a great April fools day email from our secretary, Viktoria.

"Today Lena (our housekeeper) came to your apartment with the key you left us in order to clean it for Pesach (2 bochurim are living there, and the seder will take place there too). The lock was changed. So we called your landlord, Yana. She said she'd only be giving the key to you."

This was obviously a disaster. We didn't have Yana's number, so we spent the better half of the morning trying to work it out. Maybe I could write up a letter authorizing Viktoria to use the apartment...

To make a long story short, after a couple of hours, Viktoria emailed me Yana's number. Chayale called, and Yana was really sweet actually. Turns out it was our fault.

We should have told her we were leaving. She found out from the media we were kicked out. So she changed the lock. Then she gets calls from people claiming they want to open the door for me...

Irresponsible of us.

Thursday, April 02, 2009

Presidents are not easy to find


The flag of Stavropol Krai. Very colorful.



Moscow calls every day. That is what I'm being told by Igr Lerner and Natasha, head of the Sochnut. They are working on getting rid of Yefim, and putting a new president in, since that is the only way there can be a normal future for Stavropol Jewry, and the only way I can return too.

The biggest problem is that the rules made by the Federation (and Rabbi Lazar) are such that no president can be fired by Rabbi Lazar. Everything must be done within the community. And here is the problem, since presidents have the right to virtually decide who can vote, when the vote can be, and whether or not a new vote can take place.

Yesterday I got an email asking me to call the Federation as some problems have come up. So I called Moscow, and was informed of a massive problem. In order to get rid of Yefim, we had to find someone in the community ready to go up against him. The man we had didn't want to be president, for various reasons.

So I spent all of yesterday morning and early afternoon calling people in Russia, trying to find someone to take over. Several people agreed to give it a shot, but they were 'disqualified' by Moscow.

This poses a problem. We still need to find someone...

Moscow has asked Yefim to make a new vote, and he refused. He also of course refused to step down. So now they're trying different possibilities. One of them calls for me writing a letter, another calls for starting a new 'community' in Stavropol.

Oh, the drama.

Wednesday, April 01, 2009

With all the depressing news...

Here is something to cheer everyone up.